It is...what it is......

Alena Beana is hanging out.......

2009-08-17T14:17:00.002-04:00

Here is Alena..allready 7 months can you believe it!!

here is Ella Grace and Ben...they have always been best buddies.....

Three girls...Sk loves it when they are here......

Pappy and his pooch.......

2009-08-17T14:15:00.003-04:00

As you all know, my folks are here for a while. Ben is so excited because he loves my dad and you can find him wherever dad may be. This is Ben sleeping next to my dad last weekend while watching a game. This is not crazy...Ben does not know he is a dog!!!

Hanging with the sea creatures....

2009-07-13T21:53:00.002-04:00

This past weekend, we went to Cincinnati to the Newport Aquarium and had a great time. This is Buzz and the kids in front of the jellyfish tank. It was really weird because these ones had the legs above them...

This is the kids by the Ohio river. The baseball and football fields were behind them in Ohio. Don't they look like they love one another!!

This was Corey's favorite exhibit. He got to pet the sharks. He could have spent hours here. You had to be careful and make sure their eyes were behind you and no other ones were coming. Buzz almost got bit by one!! Got to be quick!!

The jellyfish were SK's favorite. You could change the colors of the tank so it looked like the fish themselves were changing colors! Very cool!!

It was a great weekend and we enjoyed being together and laughing and checking out all that Newport and Cincy had to offer!!

Happy 4th....

2009-07-05T09:40:00.002-04:00

Well friends, another 4th has come and gone. it amazes me that the year is half over and before you know it, we will be looking at holiday lights. We went to target the other day and SK bought her backpack for school. I cannot believe how fast life goes by.

We had a very relaxing 4th. We hung out with the kids all morning..cleaned..I beat Buzz in a game of Rummicube and then Stacie and Nick came over for the evening. Jay stopped by for a litle while and it is always laughs when he is around. The kids did fireworks and we ate a super good BarBQ!

The weather was crappy this year and we took out chairs downtown and watched the fireworks. The kids did their normal DQ run and enjoyed that. it is fun to hang out with friends..enjoy your family..and have downtime on the weekend. Buzz and Corey got up this morning and went golfing. I love it that Corey is into it because he and his dad really share alot these days...and Corey can actually hit the ball well.

I enjoyed this holiday..the next one we will be camping with the Fields!! Who only knows what that will bring!!! good times!!! I am sure......

Which way do I go?????

2009-06-25T07:59:00.002-04:00

Well friends, something has been on my heart and I need prayer. As you all know, Relay for Life has become very important to me since my dad became diagnosised over a year ago. The kids and I worked real hard this year to raise funds and I am so proud of my kids for getting out there and getting donations. As a family, we raised over 350.00. Not to bad!

My friend will be the Chair for the event next year and I am so proud of her. Kara is a very organized and rational thinking person and she will do such a great job as the chair. Ske really but everything she had toward the event this year so I can only imagine all that will be done for next year.

Here is where I need prayer. After me making the comment that she is rational, she asked me to co-chair with her. I am usually the type that says "YES", but this time around, I asked her for time to pray about it. It is a huge committment and I am notn sure I can do the job. Kara feels otherwise.

I guess I should trust her cause she also told me that I could tow the camper a few weekends ago and I did. I just need to know that I am supported by the family and a little encouragement goes along way. So pray for me. Pray for Kara. And that this event is blessed beyond all belief.

Happy Father's Dad Pappy........

2009-06-21T09:03:00.003-04:00

I am sure by now, you all know that this is my dad. This pic was taken last year during our Relay for Life event. You can find him many times on my blog. He is either with one of the kids or of course, with Ben.

I am very blessed to have him as my dad. Not only does he help my fix things, he helps me fix myself. If I need prayer, I can call and he is on it. If I have a problem, he gives me solution. Not worldly, but biblical. He has raised me in a home that not only are we to love one another, but God first. I am sure that things were not always easy as we were growing up, but he never hung out in bars...never faught with my mom in front of us and NEVER thought of leaving us. I know alot of people can not say those things about their dad.

He is the type of man, that literally would take his shirt off of his back for another....skip a meal if someone needed it more and get that tool box out and help others for nothing. He sits on the porch and shares with others. He takes little ones for ice cream. He sits in the bleachers and cheers for those on the diamond. He holds those that are crying and makes the best spaghetti for those he loves.

Happy Father's Dad Pappy...you truly are the best!! I love you and can not wait for you to get here....the countdown is on......

Crazy Busy Week....

2009-06-15T21:43:00.003-04:00

Well friends, it is Relay week. Which means that my life is going to be crazy. It is a good crazy though because it serves a purpose and whenever you do things with a purpose, your soul is rewarded.

Today, Sarah Kate and Julia set out to sell candy bars for Sarah Kate's team. They sold over 50 bars today..YEAH!! They went to businesses, fire stations..stopped people on the streets. I was so proud of them. For those of you who know my daughter, this is not such a suprise. She got the gift of speech and she is not afraid to use it!

We all got together tonight to seperate team shirts for those who made their goals. The captains shirts, committee shirts and survivor were also taken care of. Tomorrow night, we all meet for a bank night and pick up those shirts. It is the last night to hand in funds before the event, which is Friday night through Saturday at noon. Sarah Kate even got a donation from the lady who transfered our title on the camper! That girl can work it!! After that, Corey has a game.

On Wednesday, Uncle Don (my brother) comes in for a few days. He will be at OSU most of the time, but does get to hang out with us for a while. I also have a CEU class on wednesday night. Thursday, believe it or not..I am home. But please...do not tell anyone! They might find something for me to do!!

Friday, the madness begins!! Relay does not begin until 6 p.m., but there is alot to do and we will be at the field most of the day. Buzz is our Miss Relay for Mitchell Insurance and I will be happy to post pics after he event!! Wait till you see the get up he has!! It will be worth it!! The event is over Saturday and I am praying we are successful.

So, I guess, what does not kill you, makes you stronger! We will be tired...we will be crazy...our bodies will hurt. But if it helps one person..so be it. This work is for all those Pappy's...Dad's and other loved ones who have fought the good fight and won..and lost. Pray for good weather!!

End of the Year.....

2009-06-05T14:06:00.002-04:00

Well, the school year has come and gone and it feels like I ahve been at Oakstone forever. It was a great year and I have met so many wonderful people. I am sure I will see a few over the summer.

First of all, let me say how much fun it has been working with Katie and Jess. These two have become like family and I am greatful to share my days with them. We have shared tears of laughter and tears of joy. I am very blessed to have them in my life.

Maryann and Judy and of course Deb have proven to bring much laughter to our days and if we were not fired this year, we probably will not be. It is nice to work at a place that everyone encourages one another.

The kids have given much love...much pain..and much laughter. I have enjoyed gett ing to love them and am greatful that their parents allowed us to love and care for them. I am now excited to crochet, read and drink wine on my front porch. I hope everyone has a restful summer!!

Blessing Isabella..........

2009-05-18T21:41:00.003-04:00

This past weekend we traveled to Pittsburgh for the baptism of our niece Isabella. This is Lindsay, Sarah Kate and Aunt Missy at the church taking a minute to chat before the service.

This is our Bella. She is the sweetest baby and it amazes me how she looks like Lindsay did as an infant! She is such a blessing to our family. Linds and SK were the babies for so long and it is nice to have a little one around again.

Here is Buzz's whole family. It was nice to have everyone together for the day!

Frick and Frack.....you do not see one without the other. I hope they are always as close as they are now! They are as close as either one of them have to having a sister so I pray that keep that closeness!

Here is Pete (Buzz's brother) and Missy and Bella. Bless them all.....

My Mother's Day...

2009-05-12T19:00:00.002-04:00

Some mother's get to rest..some mothers get to cook..some mothers get waited on hand and foot. I went a Columbus Clippers game with my family. This is Sarah Kate posing....

Buzz sat along the wall like some happy little old man! He loves baseball so this was as much his gift as mine. Don't worry friends, I did get a gift. A new wind chime that I have been wanting!!

The park just opened this year and Corey and Buzz have been before, but this was my first time. It is a beautiful park and the team we were playing were the minor team for the Boston Red Sox.

We got to sit in the lawn section and it was alot of fun! It was a beautiful day and not too hot! So it was a great day to spend at the ballpark with the family!

Mother's Day Card...Sarah Kate's way....

2009-05-10T11:24:00.001-04:00

I know it is alittle hard to read, but this is my card from SK. She makes me laugh because she is the only 7 year old I know that would say how much she will mss me when I die on my mother's day card. And she told me how lucky I am to have her.
She is right......

CORRECTION........I can't count.....

2009-05-10T11:11:00.004-04:00

For some reason, I miss counted on my sisters in law. I guess that is what happens when you get behind on your bloggin and try to fit everything in on one day. Here is just a little bit about all:

Trish. She is married to my brother Don. I have known her since I was 8 years old. Yeah...that means Don is ALOT older than me (haha). At first, I did not like her very much because she took all of my brothers attention away from me. Don and I were close and I did not like that. But what I failed to uderstand at 8, is that she proved to be more than my brothers girlfriend. She was the person who fought for me when my brothers were mean....cry on her shoulder when my heart was broke and kept my kids for me when she was the only other person I trusted. I have been blessed to have her as a sister for more than 25 years....She has given me my Jess and Ryan

Jenn. She is married to my brother in law Chris. Jenn and I are alot alike. Not sure if that is good or not, but we are. We share alot of the same views about life and she has been very supportive when I have needed that person to understand. I would not trade her for anything and feel very blessed that our kids are close and look forward to sharing much more in the future. She has given me my Lindsay.

Kim. She is married to my brother Mark. I have been lucky (or unlucky) to share alot of "life's crap" with her since we have both been through it. It is great to have someone to talk to who understands and I hope that I can always be that person for her. She has given me my Ella Kay.

last is Missy. She is married to my brother in law Pete. I am very excited about Missy because I do not know what blessings hold for us. She and Pete have only been married for a few years and we do not get to see each other much. thanks to facebook, we are able to keep tabs on ech other much easier. She is a very gentle and kind hearted person and I look forward to seeing what God has planned for our relationship. She has given me Bella (who we call izzy).

I hope that everyone is as lucky as I have been to share my life with such great women.....

Happy Mother's Day Mom......

2009-05-09T16:18:00.002-04:00

Well, where do I begin. I guess by saying Happy Mother's Day. Seems just simple...not enough. Thank you Mom..seems simple not enough. So what are the right words for the woman who has always been there for you? Maybe saying what she has done:

1. Not only did she give me life, but she held my hand as I gave life.
2. She let me cry in her arms after I made mistakes, but never said "I told you so".
3. She laughed with me when I was so tired, even if it made Dad mad (Fancy Gap).
4. She gave out of her pocket, even if she didn't really have it to give.
5. Loved me despite of your mistakes.
6. Only wanted the best for me and was excited when me got it.
7. Loved me just the way I am.
8. She brought another child into our home and allowed him to become family.
9. She loved because she did, not because she had to.
10. She married my Dad and all of this happened because they fell in love.

Mom has been all of these things to me all of my life. She taught me to love others and myself. To love God and hold his word close to my heart. She gave me the wings to fly, but always let me come back to the nest if I needed. She is my Mom, my friend and one of the biggest blessing God could give me.

I love you Mom and pray that I can give my kids half of what you have given me.
Happy Mother's Day...I love you.....

Bad News Brewers......not Bears....

2009-05-09T16:10:00.002-04:00

Well, it was opening day for Corey and his Brewers won today 5-1. It was so exciting to see everyone back together and the boys having such a blast. The team takes a lap around and slides into home after every win. This is the team waiting for a huge slide!!

Corey and Buzz before the game. Buzz is one of the assistant coaches this year..scary thought huh?? He really enjoys it and all the coaches are fathers of players. Tthey have become like family!! Doesn't Corey look great in his new specs!!

This is Tyler getting ready to take his turn to slide. Tyler got two great hits this morning...Way to go Tigger!!

This is Jaxon as he was about to hit the ball for a triple! he is the sweetest kid!! His hair is long dad..wait till you see it..looks good!!

This is Corey pitching! he only got two hits off of him today, walked a base, singled, bare handed a guy and got him out at first. A great day..I am proud of you Corey boy!!!!

Happy Easter...

2009-05-09T15:39:00.003-04:00

This is Grandma JuJu holding Baby Izzy on her first Easter. She is the daughter of pete (Buzz's brother and Missy). She is so beautiful and the kids were so excited to share the day with her.

This is Aunt Jenn. She is married to Buzz's brother Chris. I believe she was getting her baby fill. Izzy is easy to love and make you want another one...well most people want one. I can hold her..love her..and have no desire for another one. Does this make me a bad person?? I believe God satisfies your soul and let's you know when you have blessed!

I think she looked at us all day like we were nuts...she better get use to it!!

This is Chris, Pete and Buzz posing while the kids were hunting eggs. Chris lives in MAryland and Pete in Pittsburgh so being all together is a hard thing to do.

These three bucketheads had a great time together. It is always fun to see them together and hear the laughter. It was also great because Jenn an Missy (my sister in laws) all got a chance to catch up. I have been very blessed with three wonderful sisters(in law) and I would not trade them for anything.

Saying Goodbye again.....

2009-04-15T15:27:00.002-04:00

It feels like I just said goodbye to someone that I cared about, and here we go again. My mom called me this morning at 7:oo am to tell me that my Uncle Delmo died. It is very hard to explain because I was sad, but I was also glad for him that his body finally has peace.

He has been sick for a very long time. He had many health issues and everytime a problem arose, we wondered, is this gonna be the thing that takes him home. We all know that God has perfect timing and He took him home peacefully and without any pain. That has always been my prayer because here on earth, he has endured much pain.

I am asking for prayer for my family as we lay to rest another family member. I ask for travel mercies for my mom as she is flying in tomorrow to be with my aunt. I ask that you keep Sarah Kate in your thoughts as she was close to my uncle and loved him very much. this will be the first funeral for my children and I hope they can feel the arms of Christ around them at this time.

When I told Corey, he brought it all into prospective. He said," Mom, Uncle Delmo has been sick all of my life. I am happy that he is no longer sick, no longer in pain and gets to see Jesus". That is why I love my boy so much.....

Our Student of the Month.....

2009-04-08T20:45:00.002-04:00

Sarah Kate was choosen as Student of the Month for her school. Each month, a student from each class is choosen who has shown "The J. C Way". They must be kind, responsible, respectful, safe, strive for growth. I am so proud to say that SK love school and was so excited to be choosen. This is her with Miss Hubbard, her teacher.

What a girl!! I know that I might be biased, but she is such a good girl. She tries to be a good friend, daughter and child of God. She brings tears to my eyes every mornng when we pray together before we all head out in our own directions. Good job Sissy...I love you.....

Happy Birthday Ella Kay

2009-04-08T20:40:00.003-04:00

Well, I know it is late, but I wanted to share my pictures of niece Ella's 2nd birthday. She is the youngest and most spoiled of all my nieces and nephews on my side of the family. She is quite independent and has no problem sharing her concerns!!

This is Ella blowing out her candles on her cake. Of course, it was a Dora party and she was the center of attention!

This is Ella with my sister Kim and brother Mark. Mark was not real happy about wearing his crown, but did it for Ella!! that is what Daddy's do.....

What would be a blog without seeing Corey and Sarah Kate with their Nutter Butter (as we like to call her)

Happy Birthday Princess...we love to the moon and back.......

I am a slacker.......

2009-04-08T13:36:00.004-04:00

Well friends...this is a small update since my brother Don emailed me to tell me what a slacker I have been. Life has been extremely busy and I have a hard time sitting down to keep posting once I get home.

So here it is......
Corey has started baseball. He has practice every Thursday and Saturday am. He also has his paper route on Thursday. He is on spring break this week so he is enjoying his freedom and some extra time to hang out with friends. He is a true 11 year old boy!

SarahKate has been busy as well. She came to work with me on Monday and then went home with my friend Heather for an evening of being spoiled. Then, returned to school with me for the day. She as well has been free to do what she wants. She is being spoiled by Becky today with McDonalds and a movie.

Buzz has been back to work more. What a blessing! He has been busy with baseball as well since he is an assitant coach. So he runs from work to the ball field. I really do think the "older boys" (coaches) enjoy it more!!

I have been busy as well. Work consumes most of my day. The commute is long, but it is the only peace I have by myself so I guess it is not bad. I have also been busy knitting and now have learned to crochet. Add in all of everyones activites, church, working out and trying to spend time with friends. My time is not my own. I hear it gets easier the older they get, but I guess I just need to be happy with the season I am in.

Well friends, I do have pics to post so when I am on spring break next week, I will play catch up. There Don...is that enough for now?!?!?!?

Springing forward.......

2009-03-14T08:35:00.002-04:00

I can not believe it has been a few weeks since my last blog. Sorry guys...life has just been a little crazy. My calendar is not big enough for all we have going on. Let's see where do I start????

Buzz...life has been a little crazy for him. UPS has been very slow so work is up/down. He has been getting a taste of what it is like tostay home and do all the house cleaning. He like UPS much better, but is doing a pretty good job here at the house.

Corey....baseball is right around the corner. We got him new shoes cause his olds did not fit...he went from a mens 71/2 to a mens 9 this year. I almost had a heart attack!! He is almost as tall as me. It kind of breaks my heart cause he is such a man now..too cool for his mom (except at home) What happened to my baby???

Sarah Kate...she was choosen for student of the month in Februay and we had to attend her special recogntion breakfast. She was very excited and thoguht she was all that.

Me....work has kept me busy. Relay is getting closer so be prepared for me to hit you all up for donations. I am trying to fit work outs into my schedule as much as possible and trying to spend some time with friends..which is not always easy to do....

How about you guys????

I am getting bad at this.....

2009-02-27T20:20:00.002-05:00

Hey friends......I have been so busy with "life" that I have not been a good blogger. It seems like life just gets me spinning and when it is time to stop spinning, I have my butt in a chair and some sort of crafting needles in my hands and and am too lazy to share.

So, let's start with SK. She has had a crazy week. She is having issues with a little boy in her class. I am trying to pray for him cause if I don't, I might want to kick him in the butt. Ya know what I am talking about...Momma bear wants to protect her cub. Please pray next week is better. She is happy at the moment. She got a new kitten tonight names Izzy. I wish I could tell you how sweet she is, but we took her out of her cage and I have hardly seen her.

Then there is Corey. Is it written somewhere that when you turn 11, your hearing is lost and you sort of lose your mind??? I know it is pre-teen, but I am not sure he will make it to 13. He is a great kid, but there are times.......

Buzz, let's see..he has worked one day in the last 10. Volume is really down @UPS so please pray that he gets work and lots of it...

Me.....between all of my hobbies, I just need a day of rest. I am hoping that will be this weekend. So enough about me....how are you guys?????

Welcome to the world Alena.....

2009-02-15T12:15:00.004-05:00

Well, here she is...Alena Chillog. I would share her middle name, but that has yet to be determined. I am voting for Marie since it is Anita's middle name and several family members so it is special. Let me know what you think too. She will be going home tomorrow morning so they had better figure it out soon.

Here is Steven and Ella Grace loving their new sister. I was really worried about Ella being jealous, but I am so proud of her. She makes everyone wash their hands and she herself cannot keep her hands off of her.

I cannot figure out who she looks like, Buzz said Greg (Anita's husband). All I know is that this baby is very blessed because she has more people who love her in her short time with us than most have in their entire life.

This is the family together. Anita is doing great and cannot wait to be discharged tomorrow and get some rest at home. The kids are going back to Barton with Anita's mom so she and Greg will have a few days to be with Alena before everyone gets back. Then, it is to my home Ella Grace comes. The fun will begin!!

You know, Alena was not planned AT ALL, but she is such a blessing and just one more Chillog kid for me to love!! Yes Pappy, I will share her with you when you get here!!

Since I'v been gone......

2009-02-14T14:43:00.002-05:00

Hey guys, I know it has been a while since I have posted. Life has been so busy and I think about posting once I have logged off and then it is one of those "I'll do it later". That time never seems to happen.

So what is new???? I am now addicted to this loom called the knifty knitter. It is this loom and that you can knit hats on. I am so engrossed with it that I find myself picking it every free minute I get. I made one for Kara for her birthday. One for Sarah Kate and one for Anita's new baby. Which, by the way, we are waiting to hear about because Anita's water broke this morning. Which means, next week, Ella Grace will be spending some time here with us!! YEAH!! Anywho, I made a scarlet and gray one last night..TOO CUTE!! Sk wants some for her American girl dolls! I am sure Ella Grace will have one too!!

Buzz is doing well. UPS has picked back up and he is working pretty well. Which is a praise. Thanks to all of you who are praying! He and Corey are getting geared up for baseball. Buzz is going to be an assitant coach and most of the team from last year is back together so it should be a great season. Hard to believe it is that time all ready!

SK was choosen to be student of the month and has her special breakfast this coming Wednesday. This has completely made her month because she has wanted to be part of this for two years now. They are choosen for character building, respectful, honesty..etc... I am so proud of her!

Tonight is date night for Buzz and I. We are not sure of all the plans, but ya know, life has been so crazy, all we care about is spending some time by ourselves. Sometimes, quiet,peaceful evening are the best!!

Hope all of you are spending today with someone you love..Happy Valentines Day....

Super Sunday.....

2009-02-14T14:33:00.002-05:00

Meet my friend Gabrielle. Her parents are mistreating her and have brain washed her into becoming a Jets fan. We all hung out at Kara and Daniels for Super Bowl Sunday and I tried very hard to make her do Colts cheers instead. Did not work out so well for me. She is such a good girl and so much fun t o be around. That is her nutty momma Arica with her.

This is Matt and Michelle. He had everyone else get his plate of food and rinks for him all day because he had the prime seat for the game. Kara has a HUGE tv with surround sound so it was very exciting to watch. I am hitting her up for a NASCAR race this season. I would love to see Jimmie Jo win one on that tv!!

Buzz was no better than Matt. He did not vacate from this spot too often either. Just because there was about 25 people there, he needed to make sure he watched his beloved Steelers win a 6th ring in the best spot in the house!! That is also my friend Kara. She and Daniel are great host. Everyone had a great time!!

What is a blog without the picture of the dog??? Ben was named Big Ben when we adopted him from the shelter so he had to wear black and gold on this of all days. Doesn't he look excited!?!?!

thanks guys for a great evening spent with great friends!!

Saying Goodbye......

2009-01-23T19:13:00.003-05:00

This has been a tough week. I have spent alot of time, reading my bible, praying and hoping that life's ride does not have too many more turns. I know that life would be boring if it were always the same, but this has ben a bit much.

My BFF Rose (Stacie) started the week with a call saying that her grandfather's house had burnt down and he was in it. He is doing well, despite the fact the doctors did not believe he would make it. Of course he has a long road ahead. He is a stubborn man and because of it, still alive.

We all know that the economy is bad and UPS has slowed down. Buzz has only worked one day this week. I am very greatful for my job so that I can be a helpmate at this time and provide for my family.

On Thursday, my friend Lori called to tell me that a dear friend from high school passed away. Despite the fact that I had not seen her in years, she was a person that touched my life and brought much joy and happiness to the time we had together. Renee was a great person, a great mother and a great friend. No matter how much time could ever pass, you would give you a huge smile and of course make fun of me and say "what's ump???" Long story... that is another blog for another time.

I am asking all of you to pray for her family, her husband and her 7 yr old son. Please, if there is someone you want to reconnect with it....do it. There are no promises for a tomorrow.

Winning makes for a happy home.....

2009-01-19T16:54:00.002-05:00

Well, I do not know about your house, but my home is a happy one today. With a Steeler win last night, it makes for laughter and happiness. I felt so bad for Corey last night. I was afraid I was going to have to drug him. He was so worked up over this game. I am greatful that it turned out good for all "his peeps" as he calls all Steeler fans.

I am excited to spend Super Bowl Sunday at Karas...I am sure it will be a great game with great friends.....

Go Steelers..(associated by marriage...Colts fan at heart)

My favorite Goober!!

2009-01-11T20:44:00.002-05:00

This is my niece Ella. She and my sister Kim came over today for a visit and filled my house with laughter. Don't ya just love the kool aid stained mouth!! She has turned into quite the little bossy lady!!

Sarah Kate put her new hat and play glasses on Ella and had her running around the living room saying "peace out"! Of course she thought she was all that because we could not help but laugh at her! The center of all our attention!!

Uncle Buzz was eating cinnamon rolls and she was not about to let anyone get away with not sharing with her. She really took to Buzz today and was giving him all kinds of attitude!! That's my girl!! It was so funny because she kept telling Buzz, "get out of Pappy's chair". The funny thing is, that is Pappy's chair when he is here! What a smartie!! She must get that from me!!

SK has not figured out that Ella is not a baby anymore and it very capable of getting around herself. Sis wants to pick her up all the time. Today was bitter sweet. I was so glad to have them over, but sad too. Kim and Ella are moving back home next weekend. My brother Mark has been back there for a long time working and Kim has finally gotten a job in Pittsburgh so they will be able to live as a family again. I am happy for them, but sad for us. Our schedules did not allow for alot of time together, but they will be missed. Hopefully, we will be able to get together when we go back to the valley.

Benjamin was Ella's buddy today. She shared her popcorn with him and lots of kisses. Watch out Pappy, Ben may have a new love!! Aunt Sis loves you Ella Kay!!

Happy Birthday Pappy Don!!!

2009-01-10T12:18:00.003-05:00

For those of you who know me well, this is my Dad. He has a birthday tomorrow so I wanted to give him a shout out!!Happy Birthday Pappy!!!

Not only is Dad missed by us, but really by Ben. It is very sad when we talk to dad on the phone and all the dog can do is sit and look sad. They say dogs can tell when they are around those with big hearts, I guess Ben knows how much Pappy means to each and everyone of us so that is why he loves my dad so much.

This was dad with "his boy" this past summer. Dad calls him every morning to check on him and discuss the days activities. He will never know how it much to me that he invests his time in our lives, not because he has to, but because he wants to. Dad has always been the leader of our family. He taught us well, loved us great and will forver be cherished as our father.

Happy Birthday Dad...I love you.......

Resolutions.....new and old....

2009-01-04T14:28:00.002-05:00

Well, it is hard to believe that 2009 is here. This May will be 20 years since I graduated from good old Bellaire High School. Time has flown by and it is hard to believe how much has changed in my life. One thing that has not changed is my love for my family and my Lord. Without both, I would be lost.

I thought about things I would like to improve on so here it goes:
1. Spend more time reading my bible......
2. Commit to a 4 day work out week (thanks Kara....)
3. Learn to say NO more often.........even if I think no one else will do it......
4. Only eat sweets on Sunday..our day to eat out....
5. Make more time for Buzz and I as a couple......
6. Learn to love stupid people even if they get on your nerves.....

What are your plans for the new year????

Christmas 2008....

2009-01-04T14:16:00.003-05:00

Well guys..I almost forgot to post our pictures from Christmas. Above is Sarah Kate with her cousin Lindsay. These two are 1 month apart in age and have so much fun when they get together. Lindsay lives in Maryland so we do not get together as much as we would like, but it is so much fun to see them play together.

We went to WVa the weekend after Christmas to spend some time with Buzz's family. This is the three kids after the mounds of presents they opened at grandmas. Both the girls got American girl stuff as their big items. Corey was so excited about Rock band!! I love to hear them "rockin it out" in the basement!!

This is sister on Christmas morning. She is such a momma and I love to see the excitement in her eyes when she gets a new doll. It is a shame she only got three new dolls this year!! At least the dolls are quiet. Pappy and Grandma got her a keyboard with a microphone..not so quiet! it was a great holiday...

Corey had to sport his new Steelers jacket as soon as it was out of the box. Uncle Todd hooked him so he thought it was very cool because it is just like Mike Tomlins (Steelers head coach). He also got a cell phone, ipod and guitar hero for his DS among a ton of WVU stuff. He has been very occupied.

It has been a busy break. Between going skating...movies..world of bounce..and just having friends over, I can not believe are going back to school tomorrow. How long till Easter break????

Not understanding WHY......

2008-12-21T08:13:00.002-05:00

I woke up this morning with alot on my mind. This should be the happiest time for most families, but for a few I know, it is not. They are left wondering WHY??????? I know that STUFF HAPPENS no matter the time or date, but I just wished that everything could always be happy and fun during this time of the year.

Friday night I was watching the news before bed and there had been a terrible car accident outside of town. An adult and five children were taken to the hospital after another vehicle came across center line and hit them head on. The other driver drunk. The 11 year old was in the front seat...no seat belt..was killed. They get to bury her on Christmas Eve. Why not take the extra minute to make sure all was safe and belted??????? Why???????

I checked my email on Saturday to find a note from one of my friends from church. Her husbands aunt who has been battling cancer for it seems like as long as I have known her, died. She leaves behind a 16 yr old and twin 12 yr olds with her husband. WHY??????

It so so easy to say "God is so big"..so easy to say "God does all things for a purpose" but it still makes me wonder..does He ever sit and ponder when He chooses these paths for us??? Does He have a peace about all the decisions He makes???We are His children and I can not even imagine how He must feel when He sees us make these mistakes...foolish choices and know that He must allow us to deal with messes we make.

I can not grasp what He felt like to give us His son so that we may live. I can not even imagine what it felt like to watch all Jesus went through for ME and YOU. I can't imagine burying my loved one and at this time of year when we are celebrating His birth. Please pray for these families over the next few weeks. Pray for understand and peace and that God is apart of their lives.

As always, thanks for letting me ramble....

My favorite time of the year....

2008-12-20T15:50:00.003-05:00

Yeah know, I was really having a hard time with the holidays. Mostly because my whole family is together right now in Fort Myers and I am here with Buzz and the kids. Not that I want to be away from them, but I miss those crazy and lazy days of just hanging out...playing games...drinking tea (making special coffee for Trish) and of course..eating! I really should enjoy the peace of this year because next year, they are all coming here!!

I finished up work yesterday and am off now until Jan 4th. My friends all laughed at me and when they asked what I was doing over break and I said "knitting and reading". No one thinks I can sit long enough to do either. It is now my goal to prove them both wrong.

Tonight we are going up to Alum Creek to see the lights. I hear they are great. We promised the kids to stop at the Krispy Kreme store after for a treat so I am excited to do something as a family. It seems like my kids are growing so fast and more so at this time of year, it makes me think of Chrsitmas past and the joy and excitement on their faces. It makes me think of all those things I feel most blessed for:

1. The Lord being born for me...
2. My husband and kids. No matter how crazy they make me, I love them very much....
3. Family ..once again..no matter how crazy they make ya, they are family....
4. Friends. I have made some of the best that anyone could ask for. So if I have known you my entire life or it only seems that way, I am greatful for you....

Merry Christmas.....

My Singing Star....

2008-12-14T20:59:00.003-05:00

Tonight the children's choir sang with the adult choir at church. Sarah Kate has been so excited about this. She has practiced so hard and was so excited to get dressed up and "perform" for the whole church.

This is Julia! She is my friend Kara's daughter and she also performs in the choir. She loves to dance and sing and I am sure this is why she and Sarah Kate are such good friends. Two drama queens !!

Sarah Kate excites me when I think about what she might become. I love to hear her thoughts because she is such a good person and really does love most everyone. She tries to see the good in people and I love her for that. She has a huge heart for The Lord and really tries to do the right thing at all times.

I hope that during this Christmas season, we can all become like children and love one another the way that He wants us to.

The Holidays are Here.....

2008-12-06T12:08:00.003-05:00

We got the tree up this week and in case I decide do not to send out Christmas cards, you will get to see my family. I have always been so good about sending cards, but with the cost of everything and the time it takes, I am not sure if any will go out. There...that is my disclaimer.....

It has been a crazy week and it does not look like things are gonna slow down until after next week. My last day of work is the 19th so then I can get settled into a large task that I most enjoy...baking all those cookies! I am not doing as many this year..only about 7 different kinds. But of course some of them are double batches.

Every year, my kids get a new ornament and Buzz and I exchange one. That way when they leave home, they take something that is so special through their lifetime. This year, Sarah Kate got a Barbie spa ornament. She is such a "diva" and always cares so much about her appearance, that this was much appropriate. What a girl.....

Corey got a "Big Poppy" baseball ornament. He loves the Red Sox and Big Poppy is one of his favorites so he was excited to have it this year. Corey is growing up and this year he has kind of not wanted to do some of the normal things we do and my heart has been broken cause I feel him wanting his independance. But he was so into going through his ornaments and remembering them from year to year and why he got the ones he did that it renewed my heart for the holidays.

Tonight is date night and Buzz and I are excited that despite the busy time of the year, tonight is about us. We are going to dinner and do a little shopping and hopefully relax and enjoy each other..if only for one night......the chaos returns tomorrow......

O....H...I...O.....Go Bucks......

2008-11-22T07:20:00.004-05:00

Today is the day!!!!!!!!!!That team from UP NORTH (we never say their name) has come to town to get a butt kicking. Out of all the games in a NCAA season, this is the game that all Buckeye fans wait for. It does not matter if you are 9-3 or 3-9 all bets are off for this game. THAT team has had a really bad season (YEAH) but when they enter The Shoe, they will be ready to play.

All week we have heard how we are going to beat them, but I think that Rich Rod will not want to come here and lose his first year as head coach. Of course, he is already hated in out house for the way he left WVU, so he is REALLY on THE LIST.... Corey and Buzz are "Scarlet and Gray, just for a day"!!

So, at noon, I will be parking my butt on the couch...no phone calls..lots of diet coke and I am sure be pulling Chris down off my ceiling if we do not bring our A game... So give me a big one guys....O....H...I...O......Go Bucks!!!!!

A Hat Trick for Team #48...

2008-11-16T19:39:00.002-05:00

It has been an exciting day in my home. Today was the last NASCAR race of the season. All Jimmie needed to do was win the race in at least 36 position to win the 3rd year in a row in the Sprint Cup. It is nail biting when he started in 30th position with all those crazy guys in the back of the pack.

Not only am I excited because he is "my boy", but also because he is only the 2nd driver to ever do this. He crew chief is the first chief to ever win 3 cups in a row. This is history made before my eyes.

Congrats team 48..can't wait until February..........Go Jimmie!!!

Too Early to be Up.....

2008-11-16T06:47:00.002-05:00

Well, I woke up around 6:00 a.m. and I have been unable to go back to sleep. With as much as I do, you would think this would not be a problem, but it is. It makes me crazy to wake up and have all these things going through my head. So, I began to pray for these things instead of letting them bombard my mind. Here we go:

1. Anita's sweet little Alena who will be born in February. And that Anita's back will improve through the next few months.
2. For my sister in law Missy and her unborn child due 12/24. We are not in a relationship at this time because adults act like children so I pray everyone can pull it together so Sarah Kate and Corey can know their cousin.
3. For the sale of my parents home. I wish they were closer so I would not worry about them.
4. For Buzz. He is getting a cold and feels like poop.
5. Buzz's Aunt is really ill (in and out of the hospital) so I pray for God's will.
6. Thanksgiving....to just be happy being together..wherever we are.
7. Things at work.....enough said.....
8. Having enough money for Holidays.

You would not think that all these things would travel through my mind all that the same time. I guess that does prove that women are like spaghetti!

Whatever is lovely...think about such things. Philippians 4:8

Am I the Maid????

2008-11-09T12:22:00.003-05:00

Nice title huh?? Well, that is the way I am feeling. Besides the fact that I work at least 40 hrs a week, I have a home to tend to. Right now, I am feeling like I should get a stipend on the side for making sure this house does not fall apart.

I usually come home on Thursday nights and we all clean. Well, this week, that did not happen and here it is Sunday and I feel like I have a lot to do. I had nursery duties this am so the morning flew by. My Colts are on @ 4:15 so I need to haul butt to clean the bathrooms and mop floors, get stuff ready for the week. It is another busy week at that.

Where the problem lies, if everyone would clean their rooms, it would be easier to mop (we have hardwood floors) and fly through what needs done. I am reading this book On Strike for Christmas (thanks Stacie..love it) if my family is not careful, I might go on strike!! I just need to find my groove. Between work, working out, PTA, Relay for life (which I really want to be a part of) and church activities for all of us. I have been knitting Buzz's blanket for 6 months now and it still is not done. I love all the things I do so I can not back out of any of them.

Anyone have suggestions on how to not to continually run on overdrive?????

Big not so dumb dog.....

2008-11-05T19:24:00.002-05:00

As you all know, I have an almost three year old dog named Ben. This is him with my dad. He absolutely loves Pappy with everything in him. When Dad is here, he spoils Ben...takes him walks several times a day...shares all kinds of good treats and lets him lay next to him all day long. Well, everytime we talk to Dad, (which is daily), he gets to talk to Pappy too. We put the phone next to Ben's ear and Dad will talk to him. If we ask Ben if he wants Pappy, he howls (as only a beagle can do) until we get Dad on the phone. I always call Ben the big dumb dog, but I guess you have to be pretty smart to love someone who is 1200 miles away and get excited enough to go to the phone. Matter of fact, he is sitting next to me while I type this as if he knows it is about him!! Pretty smart!! Must take after me!!

After he "talked" to Pappy tonight, we found him whining in Corey's bed, resting. I guess he is Pappy sick. Think we can get a ticket for the dog to make a visit??? It is bad enough that the kids miss Pappy & Grandma, but the dog too?!?!? Anyone got an extra sky miles you are not using???

Partying with the brothers from other mothers....

2008-11-02T12:27:00.002-05:00

On Saturday night, Corey got to have his best buddies spend the night. It is a sleep over with boys, and a slumber party with girls. It amazes me how the same thing can have two different names. Anywho, these guys were up until after 3 am giggling like it was a bunch of girls!

Pictured, is Ben (Chris's son), Nick (Stacie aka as Rose's son) and Tyler (Kara's son). They played flash light tag outside and run around like crazy kids. Came in and did cake and presents and then headed to the family room for the rest of the night. Really to be pretty much unseen the rest of the night. They were however, not unheard.

I told Corey to pick a few friends and it really never hit me until last night, but my son picked the children of three of my closest friends. The people who I share all aspects of my life with are the friends who Corey wanted to share his special night with. I thought that was very cool. Maybe he is a little like his momma after all.

Happy Halloween

2008-11-01T13:24:00.003-04:00

Tonight is Halloween. This is Sarah Kate and her friend Morgan. They got to see each other before we went uptown to Boo on Broadway to trick or treat. Morgan is such the rock star and Sarah Kate our geesha girl.

Corey (The dead man) and Sarah Kate in front of the house before obtaining more candy than two children need in one night. Boo on Broadway is really cool. Grove City has a "downtown" which is more mom and pop stores and such which is separated from the chain retaurants and stuff part of town. This is where the farmers markets and parades and stuff are held. All the businesses host the event and the streets are closed down and spooky music is played over the intercom. The kids love it!

Buzz and I went way out on a limb and went as our two favorite teams!! I know..mind boggling isn't it. By Friday I am so tired, that I am lucky that I got there on time. We did the whole downtown thing and then hit the neighborhood for the rest of the time.

Corey, Ben, Sarah Kate and Caitlyn all looking very cool in their costumes. I am so glad that these kids have remained friends since we have moved here. So..I hope that all of your gobblins had a great time and filled their pockets full of items that will make them hurl and teeth rot. Happy Halloween!!

Happy Birthday Corey

2008-10-31T13:36:00.002-04:00

It is hard to believe that my boy is no longer a boy, but a young man. I am very blessed. In a day when boys are sneaking around...thinking of nothing but girls...and all the other trouble they find themselves in, he still my sweet, tenderhearted kid.

Now, I am not saying that there are not times when I want to send him off for a foreign exchange student (cause there are). But Corey is a good kid with a heart to be a helpful friend to anyone he meets. I love it when he comes home to tell me about a special needs child he helped at school. Not all 11 year olds care enough so I am lucky.

He is getting older so a big party is not planned. We are trick or treating tonight, having his special birthday meal and tomorrow night he is having some friends over for the night. He gets to go pick up his baseball bat that Pappy & Grandma, Uncle Don & Aunt Trish and Uncle Todd all got him...yes it cost enough to have that many people buy it!! Corey is very "low key" (like his dad) so this is all good with him.

After doctors telling me that I probably would not have any kids, I am very lucky to have the son I have and I thank God for him everyday. Happy Birthday Corey-boy...I love you.....

What A Weekend....

2008-10-27T13:26:00.002-04:00

It seems as if you wait all week long for the weekend and in a blink of an eye, it is Monday again and you are wondering what you did with your time. This weekend was no exception. Anymore, every weekend is becoming that way.

On Saturday, Buzz and I got to go to the Shoe for the day and tailgate for the Penn State game. It is always fun to be on campus on game day. Everyone is so excited and there is an O..H..I..O.. to everyone you pass. Despite the fact my beloved Buckeyes did not win, it is always fun. I even got to see friends from high school which is fun to catch up. Thanks Chris for keeping the kids and encouraging me to have more "me" time. Let us know when it is out turn to have your kids.

We got up on Sunday and went to church. After lunch, we carved the jack o lantern. Sarah Kate loves to do this. She gets her hands right in there and pulls everything out. Corey on the other hand is almost 11 and is too cool to do this family activity. I was told that if you bleach out the pumpkin, it helps to preserve it until Halloween. We'll see!! After that, I cleaned alittle inside and Buzz and the kids headed out to do leaf racking and all that great fall stuff. Before I knew it, it was time to fix dinner and go back to church.

So, once again, it is Monday and time for work. At least I found some time to make a pumpkin sheet cake and enjoy a cup of tea before bed before I had to start all over again. How many days till Friday???

things that make me smile...

2008-10-23T20:30:00.002-04:00

I think we often take the little things in our lives for granted. When you sit in a room with your husband and it is quiet because you do not need to fill that space with talk. When you look at your kid and she has no teeth but yet her smile is as wide as the state of Texas. Or when it is a comment that you can not help but laugh at.

This week at the daycare, the kids got to participate in pumpkin carving. They were so excited to get there hands all gooey and dig out those seeds. Well, we have this little one in our two year old class and she is as smart as a tack. She misses NOTHING and knows EVERYTHING. If you don't believe me, you can ask her.

Well, in the afternoon, she was coloring and we told her her to draw a picture of the jack o lantern like we carved in the morning. She was trying to draw and had no success because she is two. Well all of a sudden she perks up and says "I can't seem to draw a jaculator". Of course I had to have her repeat it because I thought I missed something along the way. No such luck, she said it again...and again...and again... But it was so innocent, that all I could was laugh.

Everyone, her mother included has been working on correcting this name, but she continues to call it such. I told her to say pumpkin because it is easier! But once again, it is the simplest of things that can bring a smile to your face. Hope this brings one to yours as you carve your "jack o lantern" this season!

Pumpkins here,pumpkins there,pumpkins everywhere

2008-10-18T15:19:00.002-04:00

We got up this morning to go to the Circleville Pumpkin Show. For some reason you can not call it a festival. People in Circleville will hang you over a fire if you do. Anywho, it is a pumpkin festival to me. The largest pumpkin this year was 1,410 lbs. That is alot of pie!!!

So, after the many games we played (brought home 2 fish), the pumpkin donuts, pumpkin brownie and of course for Buzz, pumpkin fudge, we were able to go pick our pumpkin from the patch. Corey found this huge pumpkin, tried to pick it up and dropped it. Well, it left this stuff on his hands that looked like poop. It was so much fun to watch him stand in the middle of this huge patch and just stare at this strange stuff on his hands. Yes, I love to laugh at my kids!! I do it often!! Needless to say, we got a nice size to carve next week!

It was a nice time this morning with just the family. Sometimes you just need those uneventful time with each other. Anyone else got their pumpkins yet????

Is life crazy or is it us??

2008-10-13T13:58:00.002-04:00

What a week!! As you all know, I have not found my groove since going back to work. I am still trying to fit everything into my schedule as if I were a stay at home mom. That is not working out so well for me. I finally burned out and ended up with a sinus infection this week. Of course, I am sure it had nothing to do with all the kids that come into school with runny noses and coughs and then wipe their germs on you as you get a hug!?!?! Now that is sharing!!

Anyway, I guess we just need to stop and spend more time figuring out what is important. Not only to me, but to my family. I am really trying to give the kids more choices and freedom with decisions. You know, the little stuff that is big stuff to them. I need to have all my answers in advance and so this is not real easy for me, but I am trying. Why is it we need to always know WHY?? Why can not we not just say BECAUSE or WHY NOT and leave it at that.

I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. I just read a blog from my friend Tina's friend Melanie. Her son Drew was stillborn and when I checked her blog today, there he was. They had a photographer take pictures of him. It completely broke my heart. Then I felt dumb for complaining about time management or anything else that is "wrong" in my world. It makes all those little things go away..not so important anymore.

So, tonight, Sarah Kate and I are going to ice the 3 dozen sugar cookies I made this morning (because she asked me to) and tonight after she goes to bed, I am gonna spend some one on one time with Corey and be thankful that even though somethings might not have gotten done today, I get to touch each of my children and be grateful that they are tucked in their beds and that I get a chance to love on them another day.

Who says you can't go home????

2008-10-06T18:52:00.002-04:00

Have you ever had the chance to go "home" and once you are there, realize things change more than you think?? Well, I went back to Bellaire this weekend and was lucky enough to hang out with one of my sister chicks.

Lori and I have been friends for about 24 years...gosh, it did not seem like it had been that long while we laughed and shared this weekend. It is amazing to me that I have someone in my life who knows me that well. All my secrets, all of desires,all of my mistakes and she still loves me. That is friendship. I am not saying that there have not been years when we didn't see each other or even talk for that matter, cause there were. But what is so great, is that we were able to pick up where we left off and time never changed the bond that we have always had.

My hearts desire for all of you, is that you are blessed enough to have someone in your life, like I have. Someone that will accept you for who you are, laugh at you when you need it and cry with you when your heart is broken. My mom always told me that my Aunt Pat is "her person". They have been friends for years and cherish each other for what they have brought to each others lives. I pray that Lori and I will be able to be there for each other as long as my mom and Aunt Pat have been there for each other.

I love ya girl.....

How Many Times Must I Say It???????

2008-09-27T17:54:00.003-04:00

Interesting title huh??? I thought it approraite because it has been one of those weeks...again. Who know the ones I am talking about. Where you wish there were more hours in a day....more time to do the things you want instead of the things you have to do. Where you feel like you spend more hours taking care of things instead of people and it is never yourself. Yep, that has been my life....

Not sure if I shared with you all, but a week ago Wednesday, I was on my way home from work and my car began acting funny..smelling funny and all of a sudden not running. The problem was, I was on Interstate 71 south at rush hour..never a good time for this to happen. As I was trying to get over and off of the road, I was almost taken out by a semi that did not car if my car was dying. By the grace of God, I made it off the road.

The car was towed to Kara's per her insistence and Daniel (her husband) said he would look at it. This poor man had the car for 9 days because everytime he thought he had it, it was something else. I am very greatful for Kara and Daniel because I got the car back last night and can stop hitching a ride with Drew who I work with. I owe you big Daniel and I know you will hold this over my head.DON'T WORRY...THE SKITTLES ARE COMING!!!!!!!!!

I stressed over the car....money...bugging someone for a ride...really all the things that I should not stressed over because through the whole thing, God was providing for me and keeping me safe. I never missed a day of work and was unharmed. And yes, Kara, it could have been worse, I could have been Job. Not only did He give a great Bibe lesson for the week, He gave me the blessing of friendship that I am so greatful to have.

And once again......IT IS WHAT IT IS..............

Happy Birthday Sarah Kate

2008-09-21T10:02:00.003-04:00

Sarah Kate turns 7 tomorrow and we had her birthday bash on Friday night. Out of all the things she wanted, she has never had a slumber party so this was the year for it.
This is the whole crowd, except for Kylie. She did not get to spend the night so she came over in the morning for breakfast. 10 girls in all...YES, I had lost my mind. They were loud, silly and full of fun. I am so glad that Sarah Kate has some pretty cool friends...

We decided to make this slumber party cake since it was the best theme. She and the girls loved it! I was glad that I can still make her happy. Tomorrow we are having her special birthday dinner (homemade pizza) and she gets to open presents from the family. Can't wait to see her face when she opens those presents!!! Happy Birthday sweet girl...You were worth the three days of labor..patosen..and emergency c-section......:)

Eating...laughing...enjoying one another.......

2008-09-15T17:15:00.003-04:00

Our mom's group at church got together last week for a pot luck after church. The best thing is that as Baptist, we did not have to wait to long after church to eat (haha)Just kidding, the best thing was being together with our families and enjoying one another. Our group is very busy with playgroups, bible study, family get togthers, mom's nights in and out without the family..all kinds of good stuff!
This is my wacky friend Liane. I can call her that and she would agree with me so it is all good. I love her because even when things suck, she will bring a smile to your face and tell you some crazy story and just seems to make everything ok. Love ya girl.....
We had about 50-60 people that day and I loved to se everyone mingle and laugh..share recipes. Oh man, Lindsay had the best recipe..I need to add a spot on my blog for my favorite reipes...Lindsays oriental salad would so be there......Mandy looks like she is having a brain fart...which is probably correct..she is known for those.....
This is our sweet Abigail. Her mom Jill is one of my friends and Abby really needed to know she would be blogged so here you go girl. Gottta love that smile!!!!!!!!

Jack left his box for wheels........

2008-09-15T17:07:00.004-04:00

This is our little buddy from across the street, Jack. He was riding his bike last week when the bike decided to go one way and Jack went another. Needless to say, he is now sporting some serious wheels.
At least he has some style about him. He got to pick Scarlet and Gray in honor of our beloved Buckeyes. Maybe they need Jack to help them out. After that game on Saturday night, he could not hurt...oh well, that is another blog.......
Corey, Noah, Kylie invited him over to hang out and pass the ball. I can say this much, the kids on our street are good kids and they care about one another. We are lucky to have the neighbors we have. The only thing that would make it better is if Chris would move over here.....HINT!!!!!
Poor Sarah Kate, she has been so upset and worried over Jack's injury. She is such a little mother hen. At last today, she got to sign the cast. All is well in the free world now. Only a few more weeks and Jack will be back in action..........

He knows what we need.........

2008-09-11T14:32:00.003-04:00

As you all know, I went back to work a few weeks ago. It has been a big adjustment for me. I am the person who tries to fit in a few more hours to the 24 we get a day because I find myself getting into more than one person should.
The biggest complaint I have had is the commute I have...35 minutes to work...35 minutes home (if I am lucky). But the biggest complaint has become the biggest blessing. I now look forward to this time during my day. I turn on The River..praise God..pray and really turn over whatever harbors burden on my heart to God at that time. If you have ever driven on 71,270,670 and 315 all in the same day, you understand this. (haha)
So, I guess what I am saying, is that whenever you are dreading something, open your eyes and your heart to the bigger picture. God can bless even the biggest things that irritate us.

A House Full of Kids......

2008-09-06T08:23:00.002-04:00

As you can see, Sarah Kate had company last night!! One of the benefits of working north of the city is that I can bring Stven and Ella home with me on Friday nights. Ella had a rough time at the OSU tailgate last Saturday, so Buzz and I decided to save her and let her stay with us for this weeks game. This is our two girls snuggling in my bed last night.....
Corey decided to get up this morning and spend the day at The horseshoe" for the game against OU. Of course, he had to wear his WVU stuff!! He was so excited to go and hang out with all the kids. I am sure he will have a great time. It was so sweet this morning, I heard Steven give a hug yawn and Corey replied "What's wrong buddy...are you tired?" it is so sweet because there are alot of years between them, but Corey loves to spend time with him.
This is my friend Anita. I know you all have read about her, but this is her first picture on the blog. Now you can put a face with a name. She is Steven and Ella's momma! I am glad that I was able to give her a night to relax and get the things done she needed to do for today's game with ease. That's what friends are for!!
And this is our first introduction of our new "Chillog". He/She will be making its appearance sometime mid February. I am praying it is a boy.....Ella really needs it to be a boy despite the fact that she says she wants a girl. I am just excited that boy or girl, it will be a part of my life.

Saved By Grace.....

2008-08-31T13:28:00.003-04:00

It was a great morning for us as a family. Buzz and Sarah Kate both got baptised. Buzz had been as a baby so he decided it was time to get it on the right side of his salvation. This is something I had been praying for so I am very excited.Pastor Neal is so sweet and he asked me how long he needed to hold Buzz down...I said just until we see the bubbles stop!! Just kidding!! I am so glad to be a part of this church family.
This is my sweet angel. She has been so excited since VBS to do this and her first words as she came up was "I get to start my new life now". She loves Jesus and that brings tears to my eyes...

This has lit a fire under Corey and now he has decided to attend the next baptism meeting on Saturday and now he wants to go forward on Sunday to be baptised. What a wonderful week when your family is on fire for the Lord.....

Working 9-5......

2008-08-28T19:45:00.002-04:00

Well, I am really working 8:30-4:30, but when you add commute times, it is 7:45-5:15. For those of you who are not good in math...it is a long day. Then you get to figure in all the other things I have going on in my life....it is a really long day. I do love my job and the people I work with are wonderful.
Corey started 5th grade this week. I can hardly believe that my son will be 11 years old. It seems like yesterday that Buzz was almost ready to pass out when they held up the after birth in the delivery room (my doctor had a great sense of humor). I have alot of mixed emotions. Happy to see him grow and know what good kid he is and sad to know that someday soon, my house will be very quiet. Well, quiet once SK is out of the house!!
SarahKate will begin 2nd grade tomorrow. I feel like she was never really a baby. When your child can say "new shoes" at 18 months everytime you pass a Target, you know they are gonna be a "LuLu"..hence the nickname..thanks Miss Glendora!! She is extremely excited and I am thankful knowing that I can go to work and she will have an awesome day because she loves her teacher and will have days being taught and loved!
So, for all you mom's out there, I hope that I am not the only feeling this way this week. Hope your kids are happy, healthy and excited about what the new school year will bring.....

Things I am Greatful for......

2008-08-21T20:31:00.002-04:00

Today was my first day of working since moving to Ohio. Well, maybe I should say my first day of working outside the home. For those of you who know me well, I work all the time since my butt has a hard time sitting still. I really did enjoy it and am looking forward to what the future holds.

As I was driving home, I was able to think of other things (except the traffic that may send me off the deep end.) I began to think of all the things that I am greatful for....here it goes:
1. That my friends and family were spared any real damage from TS Fay.
2. That my sister chick Kara is back on her feet after being ill.
3. That Anita is doing well and carrying a healthy baby.
4. That I know I can call Chris or Stacie for whatever I might need today...or any day.
5. That my kids are being well taken care of by Becky.
6. That Buzz is feeling better and it is able to work.
7. That I am able to stay in contact with those I love through this blog.
But most importantly, that I am washed in the blood of the lamb and without Him, all of the above would not be possible.

I just want you all to know how much I love you and how thankful I am to what you bring to my life.....

Camping with Friends....

2008-08-17T15:11:00.002-04:00

This weekend, our family and three other families all went camping at Deercreek. These are only 6 of the kids, the other two were not at the site when the picture was taken. The kids really had a blast. They got to experience freedom around the campground which they all thought was very cool. Thank goodness for walkie-talkies. They fished, took walks, rented banana bikes (new experience for me riding these crazy bikes),swam in the lake, played hide and go seek.....they were all beat by this morning when we left....
This is me and my friend Kara. As you can see, she loves "my boyfriend" too and this is what brought us together. Yeah Peyton!!! Can't wait for the season to start!!! The ladies all got into the habit of walking after meals. Don't always let Kara lead..you never know where she will take you (haha)...too much cold medicine!?!?
Me and my hubby chilling out after a long day. The ladies took the girls and Nick to the lake and the guys all went to the dam fishing. We went through 3 dozen night crawlers this weekend!! Serious fishing.
This is our friends Jim and Jayne. They have two boys Alex and Nick and we met them through baseball. Michelle and Matt also came, but had to leave camp to take the girls to cheering so they were not around when the camera came out. Jim made the best brauts!! the onions were great! Makes me greatful that we are all getting togther next weekend for mexican night!
Benjamin stayed home because I did not want to hear him howl at every rabbit so thanks to Chris and Stac for loving on him and taking care of his needs while we were gone. He will be going next time!!

This is Kara's sweet little Emma. Buzz was barking at her so she would run and hide behind the cooler till he walked far enough away from her then she would run after him and try to bite him on the ankles!! Too cute!! We love Emma Sue!!

Well guys, it was a great weekend and we are so thankful to have such great friends to share it with! Makes me excited about all of us, plus Chris and family,Stacie & Nick and Scott and family all getting togther next weekend. Looks like I better get rest this week!!

Give Chris What Is Do.......

2008-08-13T18:25:00.004-04:00

For those of you who do not know, this is my friend Chris. When we moved to Grove-tucky, she and her family were our next door neighbors. We hated that house we rented, but we are so thankful for the friends we made in Chris and yes, even John.

Chris was upset when I posted the new book info and the thanks I gave Stacie and did not mention that Chris gives me all her trash mags when she is done reading them. Not that I really care about who is doing who, but they make the time go so much faster at 6 am when you are on the eliptical!

So thank you to my weird and wacky friend. You do make my life so much more interesting and I will miss our afternoons of drinking tea and making fun of Buzz. But we have Saturdays of Buckeye football to yell, scream and pace about my living room...Go bucks....

Look at me Miss Stacie

2008-08-12T19:42:00.003-04:00

Although you can not see them, Sarah Kate has her skates on and she spent most of the day on them practicing in front of our house. This is special because my BFF Rose (AKA Stacie) took SK skating on Sunday and she ended up in tears because she was so afraid. She has mastered walking and turning around, next comes speed. We are going camping this weekend so she wants to be ready to skate at the camp ground.
This is her saying "YES" after she balanced herself and kept from falling. She really thinks she is all that now...
This is Sk and her buddy Julia. They took turns most of the day skating and helping each other stand up in the skates! That's what friends are for!! So Stac, she will be ready for skate america next time around!!!

Garden full of veggies......

2008-08-11T09:13:00.003-04:00

This past spring I decided to plant a garden once again. Last year, I had some tomatoes and that was about all. As you can see, my pumpkin has decided to grow and the kids have been so excited about having it for halloween. I hope it is still good by then......
Here is my pride and joy...my green peppers.....for those of you who eat these things, I am excited they grew because they are so expensive at the store. Look pappy....wouldn't they make great stuffed peppers????
Here are my salsa peppers! We have gotten about a dozen off the plant so far and I have been able to make salsa for myself and share with my neighbor. Between her herbs and my peppers, we are able to have some great treats!
Here are my first of MANY tomatoes to turn red. When they come in, it will be crazy. Right now, I have at least 25 green tomatoes...with a bunch of buds to start. Looks like I will be busy canning!! Don't worry Pappy, we can make chilli when you come....
Here is a view of the chaos of my garden. Between the three tomatoe plants..four if you include the one that came up on its own (which has three small tomaotes Dad) and the vines of the pumpkins...it is a daily chore to go out there and mess with it. But to tell you the truth, I love it and am very thankful for the food and the relaxation it gives me to go out and do. So, Pappy, thanks for the attention you gave to the garden while you were here...sorry you won't be here to reap all the benefits. Next year, we need to plan a later trip to Ohio.....

Party with the Champions......

2008-08-10T19:31:00.002-04:00

Last night was the Mets team party at Coach Scott's house. Everyone was able to make it except Jaxon and Drillion. The kids had a great time. I believe the adults did too!! It was so cool this year because all of the parents got along great and have actually spent alot of time with each other outside of baseball activites. This weekend, five families are all going camping together...CAN'T WAIT!!!!!
This was Casey, Corey and Sarah Kate all with water guns in the back yard. Scott has a great back yard for a party and the kids took advantage of all the space.
Finally, all the kids sat and listened as the coaches spoke about the season...
Here is Coach Scott discussing best moments of the season......guess he kept the water gun in case they got out of line!!
This was the gift the parents got for Scott. He was thrown out of a game because he questioned a terrible call by an ump and all he said was "You've got to be kidding me"...hence why he got the shirt!!! Coach George looking on got a huge laugh out of it!!
Great season guys!!!

The New Do.....

2008-08-08T18:55:00.003-04:00

Well, Sarah Kate had finally had enough and decided to cut her hair off. She has been growing it out for two years and yesterday, she said she was sick of taking care of it so to the salon we went!
She has been prancing around my house like nobody's business. She glances at herself at the mirror....puts her hands through it..even the "BAM..I look good"!! Thank you Lord she was not twins!!

So here you go Grandma...hope you like it as much as she does!! Anyone have any suggestions about the loss of teeth?!?!?

First Time Away.....

2008-08-04T16:14:00.003-04:00

Well, today, our youth from church left for camp for a week and this is Corey's first time away from home. He was so excited and we were excited for him. He is growing up so fast and was looking forward to spending the week with friends (away from mom and dad) and meeting new friends.
This is Justin, Tyler & Corey next to the bus, getting ready to board. They were all hating us moms snapping pictures so we made it last awhile. I told Corey a picture is better than a kiss so don't push it!
We have 26 kids with 6 adults fro our church going. they will be about 1 and 1/2 hours away at Seneca lake. I went there as a child with my family camping so I am excited for him to go to the same area I did as a child. He is praying there will be some fishing.
I had to make Tyler pose for a picture as well. If Corey had to..he had to! All is fair in parental embarassment!! They left today and will return on Friday afternoon. Please pray they have a great time.
In the jeep was Sarah Kate, Morgan & Julia all happily waving to the boys as they were leaving. Not sure if they were happy to see them go, or go swiming at the Y?!?! I think both!!

To vote or not to vote??????

2008-07-28T20:27:00.002-04:00

I guess I should begin this blog by saying, if you think I am talking about the November elections, you are so dead wrong. That is a no brainer..I can't vote at all. I am not happy with either choice so I guess I am out of that conversation. On to the bigger picture here.......

Hi, my name is Debbie and I am a HGTV junkie. For the last several weeks, I tune in to find out who is the next design star. Sarah Kate and I deliberate..who is the happiest..who has the best designs...who would we want to watch week after week...this is a very hard choice.

Both Jenifer and Matt did a great job on the homes they remodeled in New Orleans. I am not sure it is fair though to have their fate in America's hands. We saw what happened to American Idol last year with Sanja..please..America is not always the best and brightest!! I have to cast a vote by Wednesday and I am not sure which wasy to vote...Can anyone help me make up my mind?? I love them both!!

Trees should be upright......

2008-07-24T09:05:00.002-04:00

We got startled on Monday morning at 3:30 am to this falling on the back of our house. I heard the rain and was about to go outside to get the pool stuff off the patio when I heard this huge noise and when I went to go out my back door, could not. The tree went from my back patio door, to my kitchen window...Thank God for having it fall when it did or else I would have been under it.
The biggest part of the tree was in the yard and on the patio. thankfully, the only damage was my gutters because the power lines from the house to poll were able to hold down most of the weight. We did not have power for 15 hours. Thank you to Chris who kept my frozen foods and Kara who sheltered us from the heat. trust me,cooking dinner was the least I could have done. I totally do not know whatI would have done without my friends.
Daniel..this is my public acknowledgement to you....I will never make fun of you for having a generator or multiple generators ever in my life!!!

We are the champions.....

2008-07-24T08:58:00.003-04:00

Well, they did it!!! Corey's team won their final championship game on Monday and won their division for their age group! They beat the number one team in a total shut out!! They only lost one game during the season...to us..and we came out swinging.... This is Corey getting his trophy with the head coach, Scott Wilson. He is the most amazing coach. He is so wonderful with the kids and they have learned so much under his direction...He not only teaches them about baseball, but to be a good person too.
At the end of the first inning, we were up by 8 runs and had to repeat the batting order. It was great! The kids played with such heart!
They got Scott with the water jug..good thing it was a good night for it!! It was a great season and we are so proud of the whole team!!

What A Week......

2008-07-20T12:56:00.002-04:00

Today is the first day in 8 days that I feel like I can even take the time to post something. It all started last Sunday with our church's VBS kickoff. We had a country fair theme with games, food, rides..all the good stuff.

Monday was the first night of VBS. We had over 300 kids this week with over 50 accepting Christ. That is huge for our church so we are so thankful. We also had baseball this week on Monday and Wednesday. We went into the week in 2nd place and came out with two wins and now are playing Monday night in the finals. We play the number 1 team with only one loss...yes to us so they are coming for blood!! Corey is the starting pitcher. he had two no hitters last week so we hope he can go out and play with confidence and no nerves and win again.

Tuesday, in addition to VBS was a surprise party for our pastor's b-day with all the kids after VBS. He loved it and it is so nice to do something for your pastor because they get left out of the loop on somethings sometimes. Thursday was VBS and Buzz got his ears smoked. trust me..that is a whole different blog. More to post on that later.

Friday was the end of VBS with all the kids performing and we got to experience what there week was like. the kids also got to "shop" the country store with the points they earned during the week (learning versus,wearing team color,brings friends.etc..)

Saturday night was had a Tastefully Simple party here with friends. There is nothing better than to sit around, talk and eat and laugh with friends and I am so greatful for the ones I have. It was a great night and am looking forward to our Mexican night!!

So here it is Sunday. I went to church,straightened up the house and am planning on watching a baseball game with Corey while I knit a purse. Buzz is golfing and Sk has a siter-chick over. I am thankful for Sunday's.

Oh yeah....it all starts again tomorrow!!!

First pick of the summer....

2008-07-11T15:58:00.003-04:00

This is my first strawberry plant. I have never planted one before because they require as much care as my children. Like I need more to do. Well, Ella Grace really wanted this so I got it.
Well is our friend Julia. She has been waiting for the berries to turn so she could have the first one. Pappy was here for a month and was hoping it would turn while he was here, but sorry Pappy, you were a week late.
She said they were sweet, then sour. I am sure I will not produce enough for a pie all at one time so I guess we will have to enjoy them as we get them. Anyone else do a garden and have produce in their backyard??

Two goof balls....

2008-07-09T21:19:00.002-04:00

Well, tonight Corey had a game (which we won 17-7). I know the score and most of who did what because I had to focus on the game entirely because Stacie and Kara whined about having to keep score. Running the electric scoreboard took too much effort because my two cackling hens next to me were talking away and asking my input and you all know this pollock can not do two things at a time after 6 pm.

You know, it is one thing to keep score with rocks, it is another to be responsible for all those buttons..agree with the umps on their calls...and keep an eye on the girls. So, to Kara and Stacie I am NOT keeping score on Saturday. I am sure if Stacie bats her eyes, Maynard will make sure she is exempt so watch out Kara.

I will met you at 8 am Saturday morning...go to the Farmers Market and then sit back and relax and watch the game. GO METS!!!
Oh yeah ladies, check out the new quotes....I did not assign any because you all are so special to me!!

Chillin with the family.....

2008-07-07T09:17:00.002-04:00

Well, the kids had a big day on Sunday. Uncle Don & Aunt Trish came over for the day. My brother and wife have benen married for 25 years and are taking their first trip without any kids in celebration of their event. Needless to say, it is about time. Jessica is 21 and Ryan is 19.

They are spending a week in a cabin in NC and decided to drive north 8 hours to see us. The guys all went golfing..the girls went to the pool and hang out. We then met up for DiCarlos Pizza (the best ever) and spent the evening hanging out. It is hard to believe, but I did not get one photo the whole time. I guess time was too short and sitting down and talking and laughing was more important.

It is odd, because you do not realize how much you miss people, till you spend time with them again and forget all that you miss out on. So, it is making me look forward to Christmas because we are getting all of my family from Florida to my house for the holidays. I am excited about baking cookies with my niece....going shopping with Trish....and going to service on Christmas Eve with the whole family. I will pray ahead for snow cause we love to all play like kids again..I am so excited!!!!

Perfect in His sight.....

2008-07-02T19:53:00.003-04:00

I took these pictures of my LuLu today and as I was downloading, I kept thinking" how beautiful and perfect I believe she is. I know as mom's we think our kids are the best and the brightest and sometimes we are right (just kidding). We look at pictures like the one above and think, "boy am I blessed to have this kid".
Then, God crossed my mind and it made me think that he feels that way about all of His kids. No matter what mean things we may have thought or said. Or the things we could have done, but choose not to. The actions that were not so nice. And believe it or not, he still loves us.
So as I tuck my kids in tonight and say prayers with them, I will also not only thank Him for loving them...making them beautiful, but Beautiful in HIS sight.....

A Day at Deercreek....

2008-07-02T19:45:00.002-04:00

We spent the day at Deercreek today with Pappy and Grandma. The water in the lake was cold to start with, but it got warmer the longer the sun was out. The kids love to come here because I think it reminds them of going to the beach in Florida.
This is Pappy, Sarah Kate & Mallory fishing over by the dam. The current was strong and they got a few bites, but nothing to bring home. It was so relaxing and great to hear the kids laugh and enjoy the day.
Poor SK, she was bound and determined to catch something, but it was not the day for it. Corey took his pole and left us. he thinks he is too experienced for any of us!
This is Corey out in the middle of the lake. I kept telling him he looked better from this view anyway!!!

It's the little things.....

2008-06-29T19:22:00.002-04:00

Well, we finally got a break in the weather today (it has been raining off and on for two days) and the kids decided they wanted to walk down to the playground for a while. It is nice living so close to the school that we can do this more than we do.

We got there and and of course Sarah Kate found a few little girls to run and play with (she has never met a stranger) and Corey and I hung out on the swings. For a while, we were swinging next to each other in complete silence. With Corey, you can do this. He does not require you to talk the way Sarah Kate does. He just likes to know you are there.

Corey then began telling me about this spelling game he learned in class this year and we decided to play. It was so great to spend this time with him. Laughing and enjoying each other without me being too "embarrassing" for him.

So many times, parents think they have to go do the big stuff..spend lots of money..buy your kids stuff to show how much you care, but in reality, it is the little things that they remember and are grateful that you do for them. Thanks Corey for spending time and giving me the greatest gift, your love and attention....

Got to love a quote....

2008-06-27T18:58:00.002-04:00

Well, I was changing out my quotes and decided to "mix it up alittle". I was changing them and as I was, it made my think of most of my "Sister-chicks". It is so cool that of each of my new quotes, I could add one of their names next to it. I am sure that by now, you know how much I value each and every one of these ladies and they make my life so much richer.

Some I talk to everyday...some every few days, and some an email here and there. But no matter what, they are always close at heart and I do not know what I would do without them. They make me laugh...they help me cry...and they help me most importantly, get even (just kidding). ...NOT!

So, check out the new quotes and my friends who remind me of how much fun life truly is!!

Got Tagged!!!

2008-06-24T15:18:00.003-04:00

Well, my friend Tina "tagged me" on her blog so here you go. You may learn more than you really wanted to.

What I was doing 10 years ago???
I was living in Fort Myers and working at McGregor Baptist Church in the evenings while I worked for Lee County Schools during the day.

My Favorite Snack????
I guess cereal. I try not to snack so this is a hard one for me.

Five things on my to-do list for today???
1. laundry..as always
2. mop floors
3. go swimming
4. call Amy
5. finish knitting the purse for my mom

Five jobs I have had in the past:
1. mental health professional
2. daycare worker
3. daycare director
4. worked with autisic children
5. mary kay salesperson

Five places I have lived:
1. Bellaire, Ohio
2. Fort Myers, Florida
3. Lehigh Acres, Florida
4. Grove City, Ohio
5. I AM NEVER MOVING AGAIN>>>>>>>>

Five random things you don't know about me:
1. I HATE belly buttons
2. I have been divorced
3. I put pepper on everything I eat
4. I want a tattoo
5. I love sappy books

Five Things I would want if Iwere deserted on an island:
1. a constant fire
2. lots of books
3. lots of wine
4. music
5. the protection of God

What would I do if I became a billionaire??
I would become debt free. Then my family would become debt free. I would set up foundations for those less fortunate so that the money I invested wold continue to grow to reach many people who need help.

So, there you have it. Some you might have known...some might surprise you. Hopefully in the end, you still love me......

Relay for Life.....

2008-06-21T15:15:00.004-04:00

Today was the end of relay for life for 2008. It was a great event and as a team we raised almost 3,000. Grove City chapter raised over 121,000. It was a blast for the adults as well as the kids. This is my dad sporting his Survivor shirt. They had a dinner for all cancer survivors and they all wore this shirt as they opened with a lap as a team. It was very emotional and encouraging to know that people can fight this disease.

This is part of Team Mitchell. The Insurance company that Kara works for sponsored our team. We all left today with great ideas on how to improve our efforts for next year and are excited to work on projects throughout the year to raise more money for the cause.
This is my dad and Kevin, our teams Miss Relay. Although I thought he looked great, he came in 4th. Buzz said he woold do it next year so I am excited to see him all hairy in the dress!! That should be awesome and as a wife, make me proud!!
This is me and my BFF Rose (Stacie). She works for Discover card and participated on their team. She did however diss me at 5 am to walk laps with me. She can make it up to me next year! She walked from 9-10 pm, so I guess I can let her slide...NOT!!

Dad is holding a luminary. Each team sold them to be placed around the track in a candle lit service. Over 1,000 were sold. My brother Todd bought this one in honor of dad.

We are still accepting donations through August for this year. If anyone is interested, please contact me and I can give you the address on how to donate.

A visit with Uncle Don

2008-06-21T15:08:00.003-04:00

Well guys, it has been a busy week. Unlce Don, (my brother) was in town for a football at OSU. It has been almost two years since the kids have seen him so they had a great time trying to beat him up in the yard!!

Unlce Don shows Sarah Kate and Corey how to put someone in a head lock and fish hook, all at the same time. Now I call that mulit-tasking!! They miss him so much so were excited to have some time with him..even if only for one night.
This is Emory and Mac. They play football for my brother at Fort Myers High. They attended the camp as well. Sarah Kate loved having them here with us and the boys were so sweet to the kids. Corey thought he was big stuff that they came to his game that night.
I hope the next visit will be for longer and not so long in between.

Nothing is as we think it should be....

2008-06-20T14:56:00.002-04:00

It amazes me how things change from day to day. The weather is always unpredictable. Hot one day and then your wearing a sweater the next. Friends are talking to you...next thing you know, they are not. People enter and exit your life all the time. Everything always changes.

I am writing this because a friend came to me on Wednesday with terrific news (another post for another time) and I could not even bring myself to say how happy I was for her. I stood there with my mouth open in disbelief. For those of you who know me, this is a major thing because I always have a comment for everything.

I guess just because this was such a shock, I cold not put my arms around her and give her the comfort and love and reassurance of what a wonderful event this will be. Life is this way. As soon as the road straightens, a bend throws us around another turn and we stand there wondering what in the world happened. But what if we did not have these turns????What if it was the same old thing everyday?? Would we not be bored?? Of course we would. We need these turn of events to keep life fun and exciting..this is what it is all about.

So, to my friend..I know you are reading...I love you....I am happy for you...and you will get through this and be so happy and fullfilled and very blessed at the end of this new direction in your life. I am,as always ,here for you........

Me and my Pappy......

2008-06-14T17:59:00.003-04:00

Well guys, it has been a crazy week in our home. pappy and Grandma came up from Florida and we have gone non-stop all week. Corey loves it when Pappy is here cause they pass baseball..take the dog for a walk..and spend as much together as possible. I hate it that his pappy lives so far from him.
Corey had a game on Monday and of course after playing a game, Corey needed Pappy to pass with him in the yard.
I love it that these two are as close as they are. I pray that as Corey gets older, he never forgets his time with dad. When dad is in Ft. Myers, he calls him every night to discuss sports and what happens in his day. It is so sweet!!
Of course, do not forget Benjamin! he hawled forever when he saw Pappy and has not left his side if possible. Buzz wanted to take him for a walk the other night and Ben would not go until Pappy got his shoes on and took him out. Hope he dosen't get too use to it cause he will only be here three more weeks!!

Losing one of my own......

2008-06-06T20:09:00.003-04:00

Well, I know the saying, Everything good thing comes to an end, my end has come. Thursday was my last day with Ella Grace. Her mom, Anita, has decided to leave the school in which Sarah Kate attends and will be taking Ella with her next year which means I am out of the picture.

This is a great opportunity for Anita and I am so happy for her, I just wished I still would have my baby love with me everyday next school year.

It is amazing how much you can love a child, even when they are not yours. At any point during the day, you can find her on my lap reading abook....coloring in "our" special book..or just plain giving me some love....whether I deserve it or not. It is so cool that she is the one person, whom I can do wrong in her eyes. We love to make homemade pie crust......her sitting her dupa on my counter..singing to the radio..and asking if she can eat whatever is left over in the bowl. Or after I had my surgery, she would throw the clothes in the washer for me because Icould not bend over. Or pulling her chair to the sink to help me wash dishes. I hope that she remembers as much about me as I remember about her.

So this is it Gracie...time to be a big girl...take on the new Preschool with all the determination we know you have...and grow into that strong personality and be the wonderful child that God has created you to be. I love you..........

Clap on...Clap out....

2008-06-04T21:13:00.003-04:00

Today was Corey's last day of school at JC Sommer Elementary. It was both sad and exciting. Sad because he has become so fond of this school and adapted so well after moving so far from everything and everyone he had ever known.
The whole school lined up (along with parents) and "clapped out" all the fourth graders as they left the school. Some kids cheered, others cried. As you can see, Corey did pretty well. He loves J.C., but is excited to go to Park Street next fall.
Here is Corey with his partner in crime Kyle. Mrs. Cottrell, their teacher, joined them for one last picture.
Change is sometimes scary, but I think these kids are secure enough in themselves to accept change with open minds. It doesn't hurt that they have slushies at lunch time to look forward to!! Intermediate School...here they come!!

I'm getting too old for this stuff....

2008-06-02T17:22:00.002-04:00

We had a crazy weekend. The PGA tour was in town this week and Buzz and I got to spend all day Sunday watching all the golf that his little heart desired. It truly is fun and I love to go with him. Thanks to Daniel (aka Danielle) and Kara for hooking us up with the tickets!!

Buzz, Jason and Corey all went on Saturday to watch the tournament and had a great time. When they got home, we loaded up the car and spent the night at Pappy Stan's. This is the father of my friend Anita. He has 13 acres of land up in Marysville. It was filled with 16 tents and around 50 people saturday night. He has a pond stocked with huge catfish (Corey fished until 1:30 am), dirt bikes,play equipment,bikes of every kind...it was so much fun! We had a huge camp fire and made smores and spent an evening with a bunch of friends. The kids had a blast and had to be hosed down on Sunday because of the amount of dirt on their bodies. I am sure as a child, you remember, the amount of dirt determined how much fun you had!!

So after about 4 hours of sleep, Buzz and I got ready (thanks Anita for keeping the kids on Sunday) and went to the Memorial Tourney. Needless to say, after 9 miles of walking, I am so burnt and so tired, that I have decided I can not handle that much action in such a short period of time. But it is worth it when you get to be with people you love and have fun with.

So Pappy Stan, thanks for a great time, but next year, do it on an uneventful weekend!! I needed more time to recup!! We all loved it and are counting the time until we get to come back up!! Thank God for our Pappy's!!

Sleeping Beauties

2008-05-30T13:56:00.003-04:00

I walked in to check on Sarah Kate before I sent to bed for the night, and this is what I found. In case you can not read her eye mask, it says "High Maintenance". Which of course is totally her!
I know it is hard to find her among all of her stuffed animals. Believe it or not, she thinks we should go to Build a bear every time a coupon comes to the house. It is hard to see her baby that she is cuddling under the blanket.
I went into Corey's room and this is the sight that I found. I guess Corey had covered him up and he decided that is where he should stay. I was happy with not having the dog between Buzz and I all night.
I guess you could say ben had a rough day. It is a shame he is so unloved!! Sweet dreams.......

On route for a paper

2008-05-29T16:33:00.000-04:00

God forbid Corey give me a smile and you would never know he was happy to begin his paper route today...but he was. The workingman delivers local papers on Thursday afternoons.
He will deliver around 95 papers each week and make about 15.00-20.00 a month . Trust me, He has about 100.00 spent already before he ever makes it on the things he wants to purchase.
I told him that as soon as he gets his first check, he can open a savings account and get a bank card. That excites him! I did however explain that he must have money in the account to use the card. Yes, I thought is a good idea to teach him that at an early age.

Well, one week down, four more before he gets a check!!

Ice Cream anyone??????

2008-05-26T08:43:00.000-04:00

Saturday night was the nicest evening we have had weather-wise in a while so we took advantage of it and walked up town for ice cream. Graeter's ice cream is the best thing since sliced bread so we thought that we would enjoy a nice long walk and some great ice cream.
Sarah Kate has discovered Black Raspberry Chocolate chip and you can tell from this picture that she enjoyed it! Everyone we spoke to on the way home got a chuckle out of her eating this ice cream because she wore as much as she ate.
Another great thing about the walk is the view. We love Grove City because of what we call "downtown". It is away from all the fast food and businesses of the town. It has all of the charm of a small town. On Friday nights, you can get ice cream and listen to bands playing in the summer. They have activities for all the kids. And the best family owned restaurants...got to get Lilly's rolls..YUM!! We also have summer farmers markets on the weekend and throughout the fall. It's great cause you can walk up and always find someone you know to chat with.
Corey is much more restrained! He went all out and got chocolate ice cream!!! So adventurous!!If you are ever in central ohio, you have to get this ice cream..IT IS THE BEST!!! Don't worry, Dad, you'll be here soon enough

It's coming to the end of the year...

2008-05-22T13:06:00.000-04:00

Well, only 8 more days of school and you can tell not only by the change in the weather, but in the actions of the kids. Here are the four amigos walking to school. Corey is in 4th, Kylie in 3rd, Noah in 2nd and of course Sarah Kate is in 1st. Corey will be leaving them next year for Park Street, but Jack across the street will begin kindergarten so lose one..gain one...
Here they are running to school because they are so excited to be there...NOT!! Poor SK in her flip-flops! but you know the diva has to look good!
This is Ella Grace walking into preschool with her friends and Miss Julia. She only has two more days and then she is done. I have been so proud of her this year. I have seen her confidence grow and that in itself warms my heart. She'll be just fine Anita!
And then that leaves poor Ben at home by himself. When Ella leaves for school, she wraps him up in her blankets so he won't cry for her (she says). I think he likes the piece and quiet but that is between you and I. But he does love all the kids! We keep telling him that Pappy will be here soon...he's waiting on you dad!!!

Fun with Family

2008-05-18T12:39:00.000-04:00

This weekend was a blast for everyone! Uncle Chris, Aunt Jen & Lindsay came from Maryland to visit! And if you are wondering, no, Codey stayed home! They came in Friday nght and we the weather cooperated and we were able to grill out and spend the whole evening outside. As you can see, Uncle Chris made himself at home in the hammock!
Buzz loved teasing the kids all night so there was lots of wrestling and chasing through the yard all evening! I am not sure if Lindsay made it to the garbage can or not!! The corn hole game, tether ball and badmitton set sure came in handy!! Remind me to not wear flip flops the next time I play with buzz!! And to let Corey be his partner!!
Three kids went through a whole bag of marshmellows in a few hours. How they never puked, I will never know. Aunt Jenn helped Sarah Kate roast about a dozen of those things! It is wonderful to have a fire pit in your yard. The evenings are still cool so a nice fire is so much fun.
Here are the girls together. They are 6 weeks apart in age and it breaks my heart that they are only together a few times a year. I know, be greatful for the time you do have! Next time, the get together is at their house and we are so stoked about getting to go their pace and tour D.C. with uncle Chris!! (so long as he does not drive!! that is a whole different blog!)Thanks guys for a great time!!

Curly Q

2008-05-14T08:26:00.000-04:00

BEFORE:
Sarah Kate decided that she wanted to put rollers in her hair. She has not had curls in her hair since I cut them off at two. She thought it would be fun to roll them in and see what she got! She wanted to walk around the neighborhod last night with them in her hair!!
AFTER:

Well, she awoke to these curls this morning! She said, "momma, I have puffy hair". All I could think of was , welcome to the 80's!! She loved it though! She believes she is such a fashion diva so I am sure she will show them to all and love the attention that they will create for her!!

take me out to the ball game

2008-05-13T08:14:00.000-04:00

Baseball has begun and tonight was Corey's first game. His team is the Mets and he was so excited to finally get started after being delayed a week cause of weather. This is him on first base..waiting to be brought in.
All of Corey's off season hard work has paid off and he is the starting pitcher. He is so pumped about that cause he loves to pitch. He is good at first base as well cause he is a "south paw".
His stats for tonights game were great. He was 4 for 4 at bat....struck out 6 kids in the first two innings...(he only pitched 2 to give another player a try).He has not worn his glasses for three weeks and we think maybe he was having such issues last season cause of his glasses. He could not hit the side of a barn and was swinging too early. Maybe it was time the glasses went in the drawer! That is his buddy Nick on first base!!
This is Corey with the game ball. After each game,a player is awarded the ball for a great play or contribution to the game. Coach Scott is great about handing out praise when it is earned and I am thankful for a coach like that.

Happy Mother's Day

2008-05-11T19:57:00.001-04:00

Well, Happy Mother's Day!! Buzz took pictures of me and all my kids. Of course, Ben is my favorite kid. He loves me all the time...eats everything I give him and never talks back!!
This is me and sissy before church. She is so excited about having her hair grow long and dressing up. She thinks she is much older than 6. All weekend, she has been making me homemade cards and hiding things around the house for me to find as "presents"!!
This is me and my little Buzz! He is becoming such a young man and it blows my mind. Good thing I have heels on cause he is almost as tall as me otherwise! He as well brought me home flowers with a homemade card.
My three pumpkins together! My gift today was for them all to get along and no fighting and so far...they have pulled it off! But the night is not over yet!!
Hope everyone had a great mother's day.......

$.23 Pizza!!

2008-05-08T20:03:00.000-04:00

Well everyone...this is my .23 pizza that I ordered and and was told to pick up an hour later. Upon picking it up, I had to wait another 30 minutes for because it was completely out of control.

Let me start at the beginning. My friend Chris called. That is not always the best way to start a story because who knows what direction it will take when she is involved. Anywho...PaPa Johns was selling pizzas for .23 today because they "ticked off" every Cleveland Cavs fan in the state when PaPa Johns called Lebron James a crybaby. So, she thought we should call for a pizza so we could have it for dinner tonight.

We both tried calling and I finally got through to the automated service in which I was on hold for 20 minutes. I finally was able to order my pizza and hers, but we could not pick up each others pizza so we both had to go pick up. When we got to the store, there were 18 people in line TO ORDER. We were not allowed to jump the line and pay and wait..OH NO, we had to stand in line and wait for others to pay and then pay for ours and WAIT SOME MORE!!

I am not digging how this made up for calling LeBron a crybaby, but hey...it is .23 pizza. For those of you who not know...his number is 23,hence why the pizza cost .23!Yes...this is my life!! Once again...one of my crazy peeps!!

My Crazy Peeps!

2008-05-07T20:06:00.000-04:00

Have you ever had those people in your life that are completely insane?? Well, lucky for me, I have many and I would not know what I would do without any of them.

First of all, let me tell you about my friend Chris. SHE IS CRAZY!!! Not a little bit....ALOT! On a daily basis, this woman will tell me something and I just have to shake my head and go "oh no she didn't". She is the person that I call and say" This is all about me" and then I vent and she actually listens until I am done. Now that is a friend!! I can call her anytime and she is there.

Secondly, you have my polish friend Anita. She is the type of person that you say,"Are you really a school teacher??" This girl has some crazy stories and it is something EVERYDAY!! no lie! But they are the kind of stories that get you through the day..ya know?!?! But once again, I can call her anytime and she is there.

Third, You have my Stacie. She is the person in my life that tells me..."It's gonna be ok". You know how Christina and Meredith are each others person on Grey's???Well, Stacie is my person as well. My Nascar loving...Grey's loving and oh yes...elephant ear loving friend! Buzz will never forgive her for introducing me to Grey's!! Once again...I can call anytime....

Fourth, you have Kara. She and I share a great love.....The Colts!! anyone who has a poster of Peyton...excuse me..My Peyton in their garage..is ok with me. She is the person who sweats with me at the Y and encourages me to be healthy not for anyone but myself and I love her for it. Once again...all I need to do is call.

There are many others, but I can not list them all, who have been so wonderful to me since I'v moved here. Misty...Alison (gosh I miss you)...Jill...Liane....Lindsay. My thanks for being who you are.

So I guess moving to Ohio has not been all that bad. I do miss my girls in Florida and of course, people like Lori who I grew up with and do not get to see nearly enough. But God has blessed me with so many friends and placed people in my life who do nothing but enrich it and make me greatful for who I am and where He has led my life.

Anyone else feel as lucky as I do with the peeps you have?????

Sarah Kate's Writing Celebration

2008-05-06T20:57:00.001-04:00

Tonight Sarah Kate invited us to her classroom for a writing celcbration. Each student had to pick a subject (an animal), do research on it,draw a picture and then present their information to the class and their parents.
This is her reading her "report" to everyone. She had to go first and I was surprised at how well she did. She is so not shy( wonder who she gets it from??). She got all dressed up and smiled her biggest smile.

This is Mrs. Lykins, her teacher and her friend Sam. Sam did his report on King Cobras while SK did hers on Owls. Sam is much more nervous than SK. He is the cutest thing ever!! He would make great son-in-law material in about 20 years!! Good family too!!
This is them after the presentation showing off their work! She is already giving him "the nudge"!! Keeping him "in line"!! I guess woman have to do that at every age!!

Tastefully Simple is tastefully wonderful!!

2008-05-05T13:09:00.000-04:00

A friend from church had a Tastefully Simple party two Fridays ago. Yes, I know it is hard to believe that with all the cooking I do, I had never been to one of these parties. Let me tell you...I loved it. The black bean and corn salsa was the best I have ever had! I loved everything about the product. It really sells itself!

Well, as you all know, I am on A Relay for Life team and in order to boost my efforts, I am having a Tastefully Simple party on Friday, June 6th. Instead of me getting product, the proceeds will go to relay! I am so greatful that Kim is willing to do this because alot of companies do not realize how much they can help others by doing things such as this.

So, if you are close by, keep the date open so you can drop by, sit on the patio and enjoy some good food and fellowship. If not and you would like to check out the product, the email address is:www.tastfullysimple.com/web/kclark1. If you do group orders with some friends, she will put everyone one in order to split shipping. Just let her know that it is for my booking. I really want to reach my goal for Relay!!

Speaking of black bean and corn salsa...Happy cinco de mayo!!!

Taking Chances

2008-05-01T12:54:00.000-04:00

It is always hard to take chances. The worry of the unknown. The worry of things that may never happen. Just plain worry. We all do it. Deaspite the fact that it is a sin. We can't always help ourselves.

Buzz got on working with UPS when we moved here. It never developed into a full time position. He got another job that paid well, but his schedule is horrible and not always family friendly. He interviewed today with UPS and was offerred a job. It is not guarenteed full time after the summer season, but we are praying it will be. Life does not guarentee you anything. Life is about taking chances and praying that it all works out in the end. My prayer is that everything we have been through has happened because we needed to get to this point.

I am asking all of you to pray for this situation. We believe that God has opened this door (so easily) to less complicate our lives and bring our family back to evening dinners together and weekends for fellowship and for Buzz to get back to church EVERY week with his family.

Please pray for us........I'll keep you updated.....

The Wacky World of Webkinz

2008-04-25T17:15:00.001-04:00

Today, I guess across America, is Webkinz Day. For anyone who does not know what these are, they are overpriced stuffed animals that come with a secret code and the child gets on the web site and is able to play games and communicate with others who collect as well.
My friend Chris and I took Ella this mornig to Village Merchant as soon as it opened because it is buy one..get one...which means everyone in Grove City would be there. And of course you have to be one of the first to make sure you get the animals you want.
As you can see, everyone was very happy with what they got. I even shopped for Anita (Ella's mom) so Steven could get some and use some as gifts for birthday's. This is the biggest thing since beenie babies. These kids go nuts over it and if they are not on the computer playing by themselves, they are chatting to one another on the phone to discuss what they got to do in "Webkinz World".
Well, I tell you what....Ben is the only animal I want to take care of. He is so much better than any webkinz. He laid in bed and watched Grey's with me last night (yea...it's back) and we discussed how mad we are at Meredith. He feels my pain over that show!! (really, he might be in it for the belly rub)
This is Corey's collection, minus what he got today. As we speak, Buzz is on his way with the kids to atttend a Webkinz extravagazana. They have special prizes and games..chances to win things. I am actually going out with big people and NO WEBKINZ!! Yeah me!!
Anyone else going through the same thing?????????????????????

A Day at "The Shoe"......

2008-04-19T18:49:00.001-04:00

Today was The Ohio State University spring game. It was so great to enjoy this time with friends and family. Don and Trish were suppose to come, but thanks to SkyBus, that did not happen. Anywho...Todd, Buzz the kids and me met up with my friend Chris and her family for an afternoon of football. Before the game we enjoyed the band, cheerleaders and of course Brutus.
Here is Sk and I showing our Buckeye spirit with Brutus....Go Bucks!!
Here is Chris and her daughter Kaitlin. She is Sk's BFF. They are totally "sisters" in everyway. But they have fun together! I was so glad they got to se Brutus. These are things they will never forget!
Here is The Best Damn Band In The Land performing for the pre-game. It is so much fun cause they add so much excitement to the game!
Well, I tried to rotate this photo with no luck so this is my brother Todd and I. This picture was for our brother Don. We know how bad he wanted to be here so we wanted to make sure he knew we had a good time for him (haha). He won't think this is so funny!!
So, inclosing...how many more days till fall ball????????
O...H...I...O.....Go Buckeyes!!!!!!

A day at the zoo..and I brought my own monkeys!!

2008-04-18T17:58:00.001-04:00

My brother Todd, from Jacksonville is up for a week so we let the kids stay home from school to spend the day with him. We decided to head off to the Columbus Zoo..and yes...we brought our own monkey's!! Corey loves the sea life and this picture of him with the Sting was so cool!!
This is Uncle Todd, Ella Grace, Sarah Kate & Corey outside of the lion's den. Sarah Kate and Ella kept saying.."come here kitty". If they only realized that "kitty" would eat them in a moment's notice!!
As you all know, Ella is not mine by nature, but we love her all the same. It is very natural to take her with us as a family because in so many ways, she is a part of our family. She has loved teasing "Uncle Todd" as she refers to him.
Here are our monkey girls on a sharks back. These two have become like sisters. Despite the fact that they act so much alike, they get along very well and love each other very much.
Corey loves to go touch the snakes...unlike me or Todd. He must get that from his dad. He sees something new everytime we go to the zoo.

So, despite the fact they missed school, I would still say that it was a day of learning. Not only about the animals, but of each other as well.

Relay For Life

2008-04-14T13:45:00.000-04:00

Hey guys.......I wanted to ask you all to help me make my goal of 250.00 for Relay for Life. The relay is on June 20th and all donations have to be in my account by June 19th. A ten dollar donation goes a long way in helping those with this disease. Relay has been somethng that has been on my heart to do, but it never really hit close to home until my dad was diagnosed a few months ago.
Mom and dad came up after I had surgery and spent Christmas with us. While he was here, we took him to the doctor for a cold and unknown to us all, he had a growth in his ear. When he got back to Florida, he had to have it scraped and it tested positive for a malignant cancer. He started radiation last week and is doing great.
We are so greatful to those who have a desire, not only to help because they know someone like my dad, but just help out of the goodness of their hearts. If it is laid on your heart to help me reach me goal, it is easy to do so. A ten dollar donation is easy to give online @ grovecityrelayforlife.com. Under participant, you enter :Debbie Wilson and online giving is available under my name. Your name will be placed on a luminary at the relay and you can give in honor or memory of someone. Please help me...help others......

Saying goodbye.......

2008-04-09T11:17:00.000-04:00

Well, as you all know we got another dog last week. She is really cute, but things are not working out so well. She has snipped at Sk and now she is growling at Ella Grace. As many of you know, we have alot of kids in and out of the house and I can not risk having a child bitten.
I warned Sk yesterday and so tomorrow morning, Isaboo is going back. I tried to do the right thing and save a dog who needed ahome, but not at the risk of a child. Please pray that Sk deals with this well and adjusts to not having Isaboo around.
ben on the other hand will be greatful to have his home back!!